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What do you like most about your personality?
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The thing I like most about my personality is that I make all my decisions based on my heart and not my feelings
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I'm very honest and direct. Sometimes people arn't able to be like that, and it doesn't need to be a bad thing at all.
I want to be a good friend to others, especially because I know how it feels like to not have that type of friend, so I try my best.
I want to be a good friend to others, especially because I know how it feels like to not have that type of friend, so I try my best.
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If i love, i love really, if i hate, i hate completely. I always say what i thing even if it can hurt someone because i don't like to stiffle my emotions and it's cleansing. If we hide something, all pain grows up in years and if everything finally pour out it's really bad feeling.
Also if i decide to do something, i can't leave or break work on it, can't eg go to sleep, go to someone what ever untill i not finish it.
I never change my opinions. If you knock to my door now, or 5 years later, I will be the same person who love and hate the same things and think the same about a lot of things like now.
If i love you, i woult like to be the best and give you everything, even the proverbial star from heaven.
My friends can relay on me, can write / call during a day, in the night, 24/7 if need contact and i will not be angry on them, because i never leave you without saying any goodbye, without any reason. What's unfairly more often they left me without any explanations because eg found someone else, but it only shows that they wasn't my real friends.
Better is having one than 30 who will leave you in stressful and hard situation if your life start to being suck or you lost everything.
Also if i decide to do something, i can't leave or break work on it, can't eg go to sleep, go to someone what ever untill i not finish it.
I never change my opinions. If you knock to my door now, or 5 years later, I will be the same person who love and hate the same things and think the same about a lot of things like now.
If i love you, i woult like to be the best and give you everything, even the proverbial star from heaven.
My friends can relay on me, can write / call during a day, in the night, 24/7 if need contact and i will not be angry on them, because i never leave you without saying any goodbye, without any reason. What's unfairly more often they left me without any explanations because eg found someone else, but it only shows that they wasn't my real friends.
Better is having one than 30 who will leave you in stressful and hard situation if your life start to being suck or you lost everything.
Agree to Dash's last one. That's also what my mother told me when I was very young.
Also, I like about my personality that I am just how I am. That I can be happy, especially that I can be happy through playing games. That I am finally able to write at least broken english, less than one year ago that was not the case. Okay, last one is maybe not my personallity.
Also, I like about my personality that I am just how I am. That I can be happy, especially that I can be happy through playing games. That I am finally able to write at least broken english, less than one year ago that was not the case. Okay, last one is maybe not my personallity.
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First of all, I like the topic. What I like about my personality is that I always try not to let my emotions control my actions, which I don't always succeed at but still I do my best. I also realise my mistakes when I remember them, and learn from the past. Many things I've done especially when I entered university and the first 2 years after, I find them stupid now and would never do that again. As for the relationship with my friends, maybe it's just me but I would rather not say anything about it because I think this is for others to say about me and can't say it myself.
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@5 yea, i remember your older posts which was sometimes not understandable haha.
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@rudolf Yes, your English has been improved a lot. Funny how you had a hard time making clear what you wanted to say at first, and now you are able to play a complicated game such as Cosmic Rage.
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Uh, well. No comment on that. Translate is also a tool, and even if he doesn't uses that anymore his grama, hmm, no no. Didn't say anything.
Anyways, agree to most of post 4 and to Marc's one as well.
About me, I'm actually not sure. There is nothing special I can what I would like about me or so.
I think that I can be a good friend as well, but since 90% of the people these days are completely weird thats nothing which I can show often anymore...
Anyways, agree to most of post 4 and to Marc's one as well.
About me, I'm actually not sure. There is nothing special I can what I would like about me or so.
I think that I can be a good friend as well, but since 90% of the people these days are completely weird thats nothing which I can show often anymore...
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Another thing I like about my personality is that I can convince anyone of anything easily, and I always strive to form new friendships/relationships, and if a problem occurs in one of these relationships, I seek to renew the relationship instead of leaving the person.
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@5 we've all been there. I'm not a native english speaker, and my english wasn't as it is if I go back 3 or 4 years ago. It can be improved by practicing, and we will always keep learning. @10 that is nice, it is rare to find people who try to do that now days.
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Sometimes it's not really a positive thing. I've been there for 10 years. I was in a really toxic friendship and even if my friend lied to me, ignored for weeks, months, made me feel worried about her by saying she's extremely sick and then suddenly she disappeared... Ehm. She often said she would kill herself because she has no place in this life, noone loves her anyway, etc. When I was always there, supporting her. And I wasn't the only one. And this was only the surface. I'm not comfortable with sharing more in public. But I've always tried to renew the friendship, tried to keep believing her, but it has ended a year ago, when I met a wonderful person who, at the beginning, knowing nothing about the situation, managed to help me to get out of this cyrcle. He didn't have such intentions, but he helped me to understand some problems in a more clear way.
So what I'm trying to say here is if you need to exactly renew a friendship, I would think about if it worths your time.
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Another thing I like about my personality is that I can convince anyone of anything easily, and I always strive to form new friendships/relationships, and if a problem occurs in one of these relationships, I seek to renew the relationship instead of leaving the person.
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So what I'm trying to say here is if you need to exactly renew a friendship, I would think about if it worths your time.
-- (ziyadmohammed):
Another thing I like about my personality is that I can convince anyone of anything easily, and I always strive to form new friendships/relationships, and if a problem occurs in one of these relationships, I seek to renew the relationship instead of leaving the person.
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What I like about my personality... Hm. It's a difficult question.
I can relate to Daszek a lot, to be honest. If I love someone, then I honestly love the person, wholeheartedly. There might be conflicts, but if I love someone, it's very hard for me to lose the person.
The same story with hating someone. I hate only a small cyrcle of people, but for that I always have a good reason, just for fun I don't hate anyone.
I'm basically a person, who always smiles and is interested in all kinds of discussions. If someone starts to talk to me about physics or chemistry, I'll still pay attention, even if I'm pretty bad at these things. I'll still try to answer and ask questions if I don't understand something. If someone sends a code which they have just written, I'll try to understand it, and am going to ask if it makes no sense. I think what a lot of people can't do nowadays, is to pay attention to what their friends, family, loved one tries to say. In return though, we expect attention from others.
And that's what I am good at. Paying attention, engaging in discussions, listening to others, and helping people with their problems.
I can relate to Daszek a lot, to be honest. If I love someone, then I honestly love the person, wholeheartedly. There might be conflicts, but if I love someone, it's very hard for me to lose the person.
The same story with hating someone. I hate only a small cyrcle of people, but for that I always have a good reason, just for fun I don't hate anyone.
I'm basically a person, who always smiles and is interested in all kinds of discussions. If someone starts to talk to me about physics or chemistry, I'll still pay attention, even if I'm pretty bad at these things. I'll still try to answer and ask questions if I don't understand something. If someone sends a code which they have just written, I'll try to understand it, and am going to ask if it makes no sense. I think what a lot of people can't do nowadays, is to pay attention to what their friends, family, loved one tries to say. In return though, we expect attention from others.
And that's what I am good at. Paying attention, engaging in discussions, listening to others, and helping people with their problems.
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Same here I feel like directness is better than the tention and anger from people who can't show their true emmotions.
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Well mostly what I like about my personality is that I am direct but only to the people who I think can handle it, like if I can tell they're sensitive I kinda hold back because I don't like to make anyone upset.
Edit: Unless necisary.
Edit: Unless necisary.
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Well, I am a very intuitive and compassionate person, can often detect how a person is feeling and tune my words and actions to their needs at the time. In my opinion kindness and politeness are two separate stances and I choose to be kind to people, unless I slept teribly or something bad happened to me, then I'm sorry, can't always help being arrogant and too logical, sometimes even rude for no apparent reason :D
I can relate, you explaned it more better than I did.
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Well, I am a very intuitive and compassionate person, can often detect how a person is feeling and tune my words and actions to their needs at the time. In my opinion kindness and politeness are two separate stances and I choose to be kind to people, unless I slept teribly or something bad happened to me, then I'm sorry, can't always help being arrogant and too logical, sometimes even rude for no apparent reason :D
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-- (djsenter):
Well, I am a very intuitive and compassionate person, can often detect how a person is feeling and tune my words and actions to their needs at the time. In my opinion kindness and politeness are two separate stances and I choose to be kind to people, unless I slept teribly or something bad happened to me, then I'm sorry, can't always help being arrogant and too logical, sometimes even rude for no apparent reason :D
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Another thing I like about my personality is that I don't get angry quickly
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@12 sounds like a person with severe depression, unfortunately most people just can't handle or support them and this is mainly because we don't have enough knowledge and awareness of mental health imo, plus some fakes who act depressed for attention seeking, which is really sad. I am one of those people, struggled for years and I still disappear for a while sometimes, because of the fear of opening up, being vulnerable and tons of crazy thoughts which tell me things are way worse than they really are :)
I encourage anyone who feels that way to reach out for professional support, you're not alone in this!
I encourage anyone who feels that way to reach out for professional support, you're not alone in this!
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I really wanted to help her. But as those clever people say up there, you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
I wanted to meet this same person tomorrow, I invited her to an interesting event in which I am going to take part. She refused to come because her mother can't help her to go to the bus stop, while she would manage alone as well. She is just afraid to go out of the house alone, without any permissions from her parents. And the parents don't allow just like that.
I fought against this with my family. Now they allow me to go anywhere, even without permission because they know I can manage. It wasn't easy but I'm fucking 22. Everyone must understand that I'm not a kid anymore and I have free will.
You are right, she suffers in depression, so do I. I have a very low self-esteem and I seriously think I suck at everything. I'm not only writing this down, but think like that, seriously, deep inside. I'm not seeking for attention or anything, I just think noone needs me, I always disturb all the discussions. Shit, I'm not going on tt servers of friends just because someone might not know me and I'm very, very afraid to be told go out and fuck off. I'm a very rare visitor of conferences here as well, due to almost the same reason.
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@12 sounds like a person with severe depression, unfortunately most people just can't handle or support them and this is mainly because we don't have enough knowledge and awareness of mental health imo, plus some fakes who act depressed for attention seeking, which is really sad. I am one of those people, struggled for years and I still disappear for a while sometimes, because of the fear of opening up, being vulnerable and tons of crazy thoughts which tell me things are way worse than they really are :)
I encourage anyone who feels that way to reach out for professional support, you're not alone in this!
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I wanted to meet this same person tomorrow, I invited her to an interesting event in which I am going to take part. She refused to come because her mother can't help her to go to the bus stop, while she would manage alone as well. She is just afraid to go out of the house alone, without any permissions from her parents. And the parents don't allow just like that.
I fought against this with my family. Now they allow me to go anywhere, even without permission because they know I can manage. It wasn't easy but I'm fucking 22. Everyone must understand that I'm not a kid anymore and I have free will.
You are right, she suffers in depression, so do I. I have a very low self-esteem and I seriously think I suck at everything. I'm not only writing this down, but think like that, seriously, deep inside. I'm not seeking for attention or anything, I just think noone needs me, I always disturb all the discussions. Shit, I'm not going on tt servers of friends just because someone might not know me and I'm very, very afraid to be told go out and fuck off. I'm a very rare visitor of conferences here as well, due to almost the same reason.
-- (djsenter):
@12 sounds like a person with severe depression, unfortunately most people just can't handle or support them and this is mainly because we don't have enough knowledge and awareness of mental health imo, plus some fakes who act depressed for attention seeking, which is really sad. I am one of those people, struggled for years and I still disappear for a while sometimes, because of the fear of opening up, being vulnerable and tons of crazy thoughts which tell me things are way worse than they really are :)
I encourage anyone who feels that way to reach out for professional support, you're not alone in this!
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