Did he ever say or give the notion that he doesn't care about people's problems? I don't think so. He only doesn't care about stupid problems that people have on here on this platform. He cares about actual problems.
@22, yeah. His posts, including those which discuss society more broadly, suggests that he's very cynicle and don't give a damn about much else but himself, and even the bar in that case is in the sewer
All that I survey, I could easily destroy. From time to time, it is important to remind these small creatures of the true extent of my power.
Dylan and Sir-Charlie sure do want to talk a lot about me and my made up problems.
The reason why I don't give a damn about much else but myself is because when I tried to care for others and be nice they either didn't care, wanted to use me, or told me it wasn't good enough, or even accused me of pretending. You know, pretty much the thing I said in the OP. The exceptions to that I can count with the fingers on one hand.
heheh, you're going to piss off people regardless, there are even crazies who believe silence is violence. Not that you shouldn't try at all, but you can't please everyone.
1. Slow down. Think about what you say, to whom you say it, and why. It makes a difference sometimes. 2. Be careful. Know that you can trust people, but don't trust everyone. At the same time, don't trust no one. People out there want to, can, and will help you if you give them the time, attention, and determination to help yourself, but other people may not want a thing to do with you at all. 3. Seek professional help. That might seem vary hard, scary, or stupid, but they're the people who will be able to help you beyond your average Jo. They may also help you learn things about yourself that you wouldn't have discovered on your own. They say their quote"professional boolshit" for a reason. They aren't here to just spout words at you. 4. Be careful online. What you post remains, and who you trust enough to tell what could be the best thing or your downfall. 5. Go outside. Breeth, read, play or listen to music, drink water. Take time if even just a minute to be aware of yourself.
Axel, I tried all the things you suggested, sometimes it worked sometimes it made things worse. The paranoya over what could happen from me posting here is kind of silly, because the worst that can happen is that I get told mean stuff about it, and that's what happened. And it didn't hurt at all, in fact it's funny the logic, or lack there of, people use to justify saying mean things to me while judging me for saying mean things, but I don't even think about it usually. I appreciate any kind of response to this sort of thing, even if, or maybe especially, when I don't agree with it.
I can go into how people who called themselves friends or loved ones hurt me more than any mean comment on the internet ever has, or the same for psychotherapists and so on, but I'm already getting bored justifying a half-serious stream of consciousness posted on a public and unmoderated platform.
the same situation can be different for 2 people. something one person is hurt by is something another person can be calmed by. like me with swimming for instants. just an example.
Meditation is incredible if you stick to it consistently. I'm not saying it makes you all happy all of a sudden, but it helps you to stay more present and realise, that a lot of the bs you're worrying about or makes you upset is nothing to do with you and you can feel happy in your skin.
Simple answer Try God. No joke. Open that shiny lil bible, there's a good app for it. Heard about even atheists enjoying the read. Find some good church because those people genuanly give a shit about you, whoever you are, even or more so a non believer. Love your enimies and that. Man combined with the music I listen to rn this was a very depressing read lmfao. Been reading this before but now I felt like giving a genuan answer rather than a troll one I would've given 3 months ago.
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